Be positive or negative conditions it everything
-The prestigious Barbaric psychologist L. Fredrickson, in his book Positive explains that the be positive changes your mind and the form that “interactúas with the world“. For example when they inject optimism to people in experiments, (for example do them see pleasant images of the nature, or of another subject),the people are defter to the hour to find a word that describe a situation; or for example they improve his peripheral vision, (do not fix only in a concrete thing of a drawing, but they see all the drawing: “they see also the forest no only the trees“); or they occur them new possible solutions in front of a problem posed.
Surrender more and achieve more objective more does not do you happier, but the contrary is true: be happier does you surrender more and achieve more objective
Perhaps by this motive the expert in sales, and motivation, Brian Tracy says that when you are positive and want to find parking, for your car, are used to it find without having to give too many turns with your automobile; or that the players of any sport where the view influence, (the majority), tend to win more split when his mind is in positive, since his peripheral vision is better.
-By the simple fact to do to somebody a small gift, (although it was some simple candies),for example to a doctor, (his patient does him a small give before it examine it),or to a student, (gives him something gratificante, before it spend a test); it is studied, scientifically, that the performance that goes to have this doctor, or this student, usually, goes to be better that neither had not received any gratification.
The vendors, and the orators experienced, know that so that his locución have acceptance, sometimes goes very well begin his explanation with something that cause a smile. And also they know that the sense of the humour, very used along last it his talk, does that the people concentrate more in what they are explaining.
-The chair of psychology Richard Wiseman was years studying to people with “ luck “, and the result was simply that it treated of people more opened to new opportunities thanks to his optimism.
In his book “ Anybody is born with luck “ explains the case of a person that studied, that confessed him that when it exits happy and happy of house in the morning, has checked that has a lot of more probabilities that it spend him something positive, as for example find a banknote in the soil.
( Brian Tracy says that if you raise you thinking that today it goes you to spend something very positive quite a lot of times spends you ).
Wiseman Experienced with positive and negative people to leave them a banknote in the soil in a place where knew that they had to spend. It does not do lacking to say that the optimistic people is the one who had better peripheral vision, and was used to to discover the banknote.; To the equal that, in other experiments, Wiseman discovered that the positive had the mind but opened to find the solution to concrete problems, and to fix in the positive things and, consistently, go retroalimentando in the positive; that it is exactly the contrary of what do the negative, since they do not develop his imagination to look for solutions to his problems, and re-create and retroalimentan in the negative.
The most important is that it taught to negative to be positive, to fix and value the positive of his lives ,and to re-create and retroalimentase with this; and to develop habits that discovered that they did many positive like the meditation that improves the positive of our thoughts, and that will see in another chapter of this manual.
- Your reality depends of the colour of the crystal with that you look it. But you can change the colour of the crystal if you propose it to you. This does not want to say deny the reality, but see it of positive form.
If you change the form to see the reality of your around, the reality of your around changes, since you relate you, ”interactúas“ of positive form with the world: the world give to you, (does not do lacking to be Buddhist for darse that, usually, the life give what give him). If you smile to the life the life smiles you.
- I always complained me that, in the bookshop where buy some sobres, (to be able to send a manual that have written of sales and concertación of visits by telephone),hardly ever had sobres white. The sobres that almost always if had were brown. A day that my head was in positive, resorted to to buy the sobres brown. I thought that probably it did not remain badly send my manuals with the sobres brown.
My surprise was egregious when I checked that the sobres brown were better valued, in the small survey that did among some known, that the sobres white of which cost me find stock.
Moral: the have had my head in positive did me be more opened to find a solution that resulted to be much better of the expected.
The word crisis in Chinese has the double meaning of danger and opportunity.
- They have ensured me that the anecdote of the vendors that travel to a poor African country at the beginning of the 19th century is true:
Two vendors of shoes arrive to an African country at the beginning of the 19th century.
The first llama by telephone to his company and says: “we go us to ruin in this country since all the world goes barefoot!“
The second vendor calls by telephone to his company and says: “we go us to do of gold since in this country since all the world goes barefoot!“.
If the second vendor had raised of the bed thinking only in the heat that does in this country, in the mosquitos that the have hammered this night… etc., that is to say if it had raised in negative is very difficult that had found this inventive start to his business.
I knew, in full crisis, to a young employer that had tents in a tourist zone where there was a lot of Russian tourism, and that went him very well. I asked him his secret, answered me that his friends that also had tents complained that the Russians did not buy at all. As his mind was more opened that the one of his friends opted for asking to the Russians that would like them find in the tent, that things were used to to buy, and occurred him fill his tents with these products, with a logically successful result. ( Although no it said it to me no me extrañaría at all that the dead hours, in which it did not go in people in the tent, devoted them to study Russian by internet instead of to complain that it did not go in the people ).
