If you change your surroundings change your life
After an accident of traffic, Julio Churches remained postrado in a bed during a year, and like this began to touch a guitar that gave him, since the arms was one of his few members that could move. Probably, if it had not suffered this accident, never had been a famous singer.
- When being in the war of the Vietnam, the circumstances changed radically for a lot of North American youngsters. Some could not endure the brutal pressure of a war without taking drugs. Fortunately when it ended up the war of Vietnam and went back home, surprisingly for a lot of military doctors, the immense majority of the addicted youngsters to the drugs during the war, left radically to take them.
What can learn of these facts?, very simple: if we cause a positive change in our surroundings, are helping to that we do a positive change in our life. Sometimes a problem can solve it, or paliar, changing our surroundings.
José Ortega and Gasset said that celebrate sentence “ I am I and my circumstance “, the interesting is that I can change a lot of circumstances that surround my life to improve it.
Henry Ford said “do not regret you do “: change the circumstances that if we can change, and not to confuse them with the others can not change, not to can put the excuse that it can not do at all to improve your reality, can be a good example to do something positive instead of complaining .
If we surround us of people that consume drugs will have but possibilities to try the drugs, if we surround us of successful and hard-working people is clear that will have more possibilities to be successful and workers
If instead of saying. “ Tomorrow I go to swim “, leave the stock exchange of sport prepared at the side of your bed so that you oblige you to trip with her when raising you, have more probabilities of not to forget you to go morning to the swimming pool.
I think that once I heard in the television say to Camilo José Cela that to write shut in a narrow room, where only there were white walls a table and a folio: this change in his surroundings, caused by the same, helped him to no desconcentrarse to the hour to write.
It is known the humble origin of a lot of sportsmen and like the austerity was the rule in his lives, even there is expert that say that, for example, a too pleasant and cosy gymnasium, or a too pleasant climate, what animates is to relax and no to coach; the contrary that a place that gather a series of conditions a so much austere and “ sórdidas “.
- The North American multimillionaire John Assaraf says that it pays all the months, in advance, to his personal trainer; and that there are days that does not want it neither see, when it calls to the door of his house to the 7 of the morning to do together the daily session of sport, by the few win that has to do exercise. But already it has paid him, and already it has created a circumstance to oblige to do sport every day.
If instead of complaining you that they go in you a lot of emails when you work with the computer, annul the system that warns you that it has arrived you an email, is much more effective to that simply you say you to you same that do not go to look more emails to the end of the day, etc.
The scientists have discovered that the most successful changes are those that involve changes of behaviour, as for example what does John Assaraf is to define an aim that determines a change of behaviour, does not mark like aim to run 1km each day; that this well that it mark it to him, but is much better that it mark a change of behaviour: remain with his personal trainer each day in his house to the 7 of the morning.
If you want to begin an hour before to desayunar: to work, mark you a change of behaviour to go an hour before to buy you the breakfast, (in the case that it touch you, each day, buy the breakfast),since you are marking you a change of behaviour.
If you are vendor and relax you after each enclosed sale, mark you like change of behaviour, do x visits the following day to the that have closed the sale: you are defining a change of behaviour.
